Sexual Assault

Sexual assault is any kind of sexual contact or behavior that happens without consent. It can take many forms, but one thing is always true: it’s never the victim’s fault. An abuser might use force, threats, pressure, or manipulation to commit sexual violence.

Most of the time, the person causing harm is someone the victim knows. This includes people in dating or romantic relationships. Sexual violence can happen in any type of relationship, no matter the gender or sexual orientation of the people involved.

Sexual violence in a relationship usually doesn’t happen just once. It often comes with other types of abuse, like emotional or physical abuse. It may start with controlling behavior and get worse over time.

Impacts of sexual assault

  • Feeling sad or down most of the time

  • Low energy or always feeling tired

  • Changes in sleep or eating habits

  • Pulling away from friends, family, or activities they used to enjoy

  • Thoughts of self-harm or hurting themselves

  • Low self-esteem or not feeling good about themselves

  • Feeling anxious or worried a lot

  • Avoiding certain places or situations

  • Doing worse in school or other responsibilities

  • Getting a sexually transmitted infection (STI)

  • Using drugs or alcohol 

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Supporting Survivors

  • Believe them and let them know you do

  • Let them share their feelings and offer emotional support

  • Don’t judge them for what happened or how they’re reacting

  • Don’t make choices for them—help them feel in control

  • Learn more so you can better understand and support them

  • Check in with them regularly to show you care

  • Help them explore their options so they can decide what’s best

  • Connect them to helpful resources like counselors or support services

  • Keep their story private—don’t share it with anyone else without their permission

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Other Forms of Violence