Sexual Assault
Sexual assault is any kind of sexual contact or behavior that happens without consent. It can take many forms, but one thing is always true: it’s never the victim’s fault. An abuser might use force, threats, pressure, or manipulation to commit sexual violence.
Most of the time, the person causing harm is someone the victim knows. This includes people in dating or romantic relationships. Sexual violence can happen in any type of relationship, no matter the gender or sexual orientation of the people involved.
Sexual violence in a relationship usually doesn’t happen just once. It often comes with other types of abuse, like emotional or physical abuse. It may start with controlling behavior and get worse over time.
Impacts of sexual assault
Feeling sad or down most of the time
Low energy or always feeling tired
Changes in sleep or eating habits
Pulling away from friends, family, or activities they used to enjoy
Thoughts of self-harm or hurting themselves
Low self-esteem or not feeling good about themselves
Feeling anxious or worried a lot
Avoiding certain places or situations
Doing worse in school or other responsibilities
Getting a sexually transmitted infection (STI)
Using drugs or alcohol
Supporting Survivors
Believe them and let them know you do
Let them share their feelings and offer emotional support
Don’t judge them for what happened or how they’re reacting
Don’t make choices for them—help them feel in control
Learn more so you can better understand and support them
Check in with them regularly to show you care
Help them explore their options so they can decide what’s best
Connect them to helpful resources like counselors or support services
Keep their story private—don’t share it with anyone else without their permission
Other Forms of Violence